Listen, my little barroom barista. I will only speak the truth. If I say you're attractive, it's because I find you atractive. If I am polite, it's because I like and respect you, If I call you a cute pet name, or anything of the sort. It's being flirty but because it's my nature. It does not mean I am going to ask you to fuck me, or love me or any form of attachment at all. It's just me being kind, polite, complimentary, firtatious, and charming. How you respond to it, is your choice. And yours alone.